I rush to attend an RA information session-traveling down the three flights of steps of Smyth Hall-with my friend Jess. I step into the main lounge that is full of RA’s and I could sense them looking my way. It was a welcoming atmosphere. I smiled and greeted those who approached me. With several RA’s from different buildings lined at the center of the room, I knew that this meeting would hold important conversations.

As the RA’s were seated, each one was sure to make eye contact with each other and the audience. There was one RA holding bright pink note cards. He wanted us to ask questions but understood that most of us were too shy to speak during the meeting, like me. Therefore, the bright pink note cards in his grasp were for anonymous questions that we attendees had. Throughout the meeting, everyone was respectful and were active listeners by refraining from the use of their cell phones. Although my phone was buzzing, I had to resist the urge to turn it over. My friend Jess’s phone wouldn’t stop buzzing-soon her roommate entered the meeting. Jess’s roommate was locked out, so she quickly grabbed the room key.

The RA’s were sure to answer each question. They discussed key elements to succeeding in interviews. I began to feel anxious about the second RA interview coming up. As the RA’s shared their personal experiences with residents and discussed what their favorite thing about being an RA is, it helped ease my anxiousness. I was further reassured as to how rewarding the position is.

The communication in this meeting helped me feel more confident with my potential future as an RA. Since mostly the RA’s spoke, I realize that I should have spoken by asking more questions. I was able to observe the warm welcomes, friendly faces, and informative conversations within this meeting.