To the girl who said that I ruined her whole High School career,

I went throughout high school trying to make it the best experience for myself, my friends, and my classmates. I even ran for student council three different times and won each of those elections. I planned and made events to the best of my ability so that everyone could enjoy them. But it was not just about those school events, it was everyday. You took my friendliness, my humor, and my willingness to make friends and you made it seem that I was the bad person because I was trying to make the awkwardness and uneasiness go away?

I was always taught to be the bigger person in every situation and when I tried to make up for God knows what, you still went out of your way and told the whole social media world that I “ruined your high school career.” I went out of my way to ask what I did wrong and you could not put it on specific things but mainly blamed me for your at home conflicts. I’m sorry that things weren’t bad at home and I wish they went away, but it doesn’t give you any reason why you should make me feel like the bad person. After me trying to be civil, you still wouldn’t open your arms. So, yes I did not invite you over to my house for the last day of school because after these past 4 years, I thought that you did not want to be around me. I just want to know, what could have I done for you.

This is me, writing a letter to you that you’ll never see because I am done. I am done trying; to argue with someone who won’t be big enough to tell me that I am not the problem. But yet I have and am still thinking about you and apologizing for something that I don’t know what I did. It doesn’t hurt to say sorry.

-Mya

This note is to a girl from my high school who never fit in right, she was very pretty, had good intentions, was smart but yet she didn’t seem to come across anyone in my friend group right. She lied many times when we all knew the truth, she judged us many times, making myself and others very uncomfortable. I could go on but what is the worth? I tried to see what was going on and what was making her do things like this. But I realized that you can’t make someone change, they have to work for it themselves. So, that being said, I always put others before me, but sometimes you have to think of yourself because those who put you down, bring you with them.

I loved my friends from high school, a lot of them do go to UD. The picture above is my senior year grade and yes the girl who I wrote the note to is in it.