As each year continues, we grow more and more. I’d have to say that this year is one for the books, literally and figuratively. Since I was a sophomore transfer student this year at UD, it was difficult to adjust in the first semester. Then, just as I was getting acclimated, our second semester was cut short by the lovely Coronavirus.

I, like many others, didn’t get to experience all that I could have at Delaware. I have also relocated to Florida with my family which I have written about several times. A lot has changed for me this year. With that being said, I have realized that Delaware has only put me deeper and deeper into student debt. I am forever grateful to have experienced a semester and a half here. However, Delaware is known for not doing anything financially for transfer students and I’m out of state so you know how it goes. I am well aware that UD is a great school and it was another year that I was able to grow in a different environment. I have realized that I will most likely be happier and get the same education for less elsewhere.

Although COVID-19 has taught a great many lessons, I’d have to say that some key things I’ve learned personally include: being true to yourself and stop caring about the opinions of others. If you are like me, you always put others before yourself. I have always been concerned with what others think of me. I learned that I must listen to myself. The only person that has the right to judge you is yourself. I also learned that transferring is not as big of a deal as people make it. Of course, to essentially go through freshman year twice is a challenge in itself. Now, I say that I’d like to continue my education elsewhere.

I regret some decisions I have made throughout my college experiences, but being that I have learned from them, it has made me grow. I can get a similar degree in Health Science at Temple University. I have several close friends and a cousin that attends too. Third times a charm right! I’m crazy to not go to a school in Florida but then I’d be doing freshman year for the third time and not knowing anyone. I always said that I’d like to finish my academic years up north and be with my hometown friends, so that is what I am leaning towards.

I wish all of you the best of luck in your future endeavors. This was the first English class that I actually enjoyed. I find that being able to write about anything we want gives us the freedom to express ourselves fully. To conclude, you are in control of your life, remember to do what makes you happy.

Take Care.

Emily Pellegrino